This is My Calling, This is My Vocation


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This is My Calling, This is My Vocation

I am a conundrum: a rather outmoded sort of woman, ridiculed by modern career women, vilified by the earth’s prophets of doom and sanctified by the religious right. I was the least likely candidate to have a lot of children. I had never even held a baby before my first born.You would think having nine children would have turned me into a frazzled wreck with a figure like the Pillsbury Dough Boy and a brain gone to mush, but I remain quite articulate, with a quirky sense of humour, standing at 5’1” and weighing in at 106 lbs. Not quite a rosy-cheeked, robust, matronly looking mother of a large brood.

When the words The Joy of Mothering popped into my head as a sub-title for my short stories, it was like an epiphany for me because those few words verbalize my experience living with little people. The very existence of a joyful mother of nine children seems to confound people. Embracing an outdated lifestyle on a traditional, small, family farm has been a struggle through confusion, guilt and even public condemnation to finally reach the point where I can now shout loudly,

This is my call, this is my vocation, this is my witness to the world.

After the birth of our fourth child, Michael and I struggled to understand exactly how we were meant to live our lives. We were discussing an article by an author whose main premise was that letting go of control and trusting in God was not some abstract principle but a day-to-day practical call that included the surrender of our fertility. Of course we practised natural family planning but I was one of those rare people who could conceive long before ovulation.

As my doctor said once, “Ah, I remember reading about a woman in New Zealand, two years ago, who conceived five days before ovulation.”  I raised my hand and chirped, “Well, you can add me to that list!”

Although we could not imagine how large our family would become, the words of that article resonated within both my husband and me. Guilt lifted off us and a surge of excitement, a sense of purpose welled up from within. Although it took time to really believe that none of our children were simply a failure of the natural family planning method. Many small experiences kept reinforcing the truth for us that God called each of our children into being with our co-operation. We’d stumbled blindly at times and then a burst of clarity would shine light on our purpose.

For example, twenty-five years ago, I once again slipped into panic mode, worrying if I was pregnant with my fifth child. Suddenly a wave of peace enveloped me and my whole body relaxed.I heard these words within me,

This is your call. This is your vocation. This is your witness to the world.

All sorts of objections rushed into my head, “What on earth do you mean a witness, a witness to what?- stupidity? People don’t understand. They just think we are irresponsible or idiots……”  Then unexpected joy bubbled within me and I sensed these words in my spirit,

“I am with you.”

Once again a blanket of peace wrapped like a blanket around me. It was an actual physical sensation. My mind was calm and my spirit felt strong.  That was it for me; I understood and I said, “Yes”.  Though I still cringed under disapproval from society, I always understood that my children were saving me by compelling me to dive deeper into my spirit, discovering the power of eternal Love at my core, a love that can stand strong against all opposition.  That is my call.  That is my vocation.  That is my witness to the world.

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16 thoughts on “This is My Calling, This is My Vocation

  1. I am finding my way, my calling, in the dialogue with God daily about it. Yearning for traditionalism but stuck in a modern world I long to leave behind

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    1. I was disappointed at first when I realized my call was to be a wife and mother and not a contemplative nun but then a friend who is indeed a contemplative (at a listening house as a laywoman who has taken vows) told me, You are so lucky; God has given you family and an inner life of prayer.’

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      1. Yes we are blessed. I am praying for God’s discernment over where He would have me. I have grown weary in my career which I chose way before finding Christ, and I am finding it more difficult everyday to be at work.

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      1. Ok wow yes, I will definitely take a look at that. I am currently reading about Sister Edith Stein and it is changing something in me, I cannot put the book down and I feel a special connection to her.

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      2. Very nice, I am looking forward to reading it!
        Yes Edith was a jewish girl who found Christ and became a Catholic nun. She perished in Auschwitz during the Nazi regime. She was made a saint in 1998 I believe. I cannot put the biography down, she was a great philosopher, thinker and a real underdog it seems in the church because of her Jewish roots and forward thinking, and also because she perished much to soon in the most horrific way. The book I am reading is Edith Stein a biography by Waltraud Herbstrith and I am just devouring it. Her life was incredible.

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