Babies Are Preverbal, Not Idiots


Newborn babies are complex little people who see, hear, touch, communicate, receive information and, above all, remember.

Of course, we can readily see that loud, sharp or deep voices cause a newborn to jump but are you 59f1f0ee8773c7b4ca9eed324298e598-1aware that a newborn will turn to look at a voice he remembers hearing in the womb?

It was still  amazing to watch my first grand-daughter turn towards her mom’s and dad’s voices when she was only hours old.  When her parents held her, she calmed down right away because she had been constantly reassured of their love and devotion while she was still in the womb. Now out in the world, she knows that she is safe and protected especially in their arms.

Conversely, all babies are sensitive to the approach of a stranger.

The most blatant  personal example I can remember is my six-month-old Mary. I was holding her when a tall, slender, older priest, dressed all in black, gently reached out to hold her. He smiled and patiently waited while Mary tensed her little body, drew back and looked him up and down very suspiciously. She drew back a second time, even further, and once again glanced from his head to his feet and slowly looked back at his face again. A third time, Mary repeated the process and then suddenly she relaxed, broke out into a wonderful smile and reached her own arms out to lean forward so Father could pick her up.

infant_smallThat baby was receiving unspoken messages from Father’s facial expression, tone of voice,  body language and emotional and spiritual ‘vibes’ that radiated from his inner spirit. In short, even though Mary was not talking yet, she was not an idiot. We tend to forget that.

Isaiah 49:1

Listen to me, O coastlands, and give attention, you peoples from afar. The Lord called me from the womb, from the body of my mother he named my name.

5 thoughts on “Babies Are Preverbal, Not Idiots

  1. This was really lovely! Newborns certainly come out far more complex and formed than we think. Personality and all! And so true about the parent child bond beginning long before birth.
    If you’re looking for a beautiful documentary about babies, you should really watch the moving story of the south-Korean pastor who rescues babies who would be otherwise abandoned on the streets at birth. A heart-wrenching testament to the beauty and value of each life, right from the start! It’s called “The Drop Box,” after the baby box he installed in his house wall where unwanted babies can be left to be cared for…hundreds have been saved!

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