Our Biggest Delusion is Rooted in Our Ego

I am living in a fantastical delusion when I see myself as the centre of the universe, viewing everything as it circles around me. As believers, we sing and recite prayers that proclaim that God is the centre of all but our psychological make-up screams the exact opposite. I view people, events, history and yes even God through my eyes, judging what is right, trusting my thoughts and my feelings as the final judge of what is real.

Most of us live in delusion. Even when we become aware of our narrow world view, it is almost impossible to let go of our deeply rooted assumptions and see reality. Actually, we can only see reality when we live in, with and through God.

There is a world of difference between a man who is aware of himself, sitting on a hill and looking at a beautiful sunrise and a man so enthralled with that very same sunrise that he forgets himself and becomes absorbed in the scene. In the first instance, the man is egocentric; he is in delusion at the centre 0f his world, not God.

When I see beauty everywhere, I experience joy and a sense of connection because my eyes are not on myself. The truth is that I am simply part of the whole. Everything does not depend on me. I am free to relax and enjoy the beauty of nature and the Spirit of God which permeates all when I am in the right place in the scheme of things when I give up my grand delusion.

When Jesus says we must die to ourselves, He is not speaking about some pious self-sacrifice that makes us look holy, no He has something much more radical in mind. The kind of inner transformation Jesus desires literally rips the rug up from under our feet and shatters our delusions, our world view.

◄  Galatians 2:20  ►
I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

Why is modern man so anxious, nervous, out of sorts? Part of the reason is probably that many people barely see a blade of grass during their normal work day. Surrounded by concrete and glass, our innate self craves connection with the rest of the natural world, other people, the communion of saints, (both living and dead) and at an even deeper level, God Himself.

Instead, we live in isolated, man-made prisons which shut out other humans never mind other living creatures and God.  Each person is at the centre of their little artificial universe. That means that each of us has assumed the role of king or queen of our tiny kingdoms with everything depending on us.

I was never designed to live alone like an island unto myself. Yet, in my pride, I cling tenaciously to my throne and crown. Only when I was completely depleted and shattered, only then did I resign and give God back His job. Only then did I surrender an egocentric point of view and embraced reality which is that God is at the centre of the universe and I am simply part of the Mystical  Body of Christ.


Definitely absurd but I only saw this fact after I surrendered and let go of control. I cannot find what is really important in life in self-created delusions but I can discover the truth as I learn to live in harmony with a bigger universe than the one I create.

In the total expanse of human life there is not a single square inch of which the Christ, who alone is sovereign, does not declare, ‘That is mine!’ (Abraham Kuyper)

St. John of the Cross (San Juan de la Crux), who lived in the 16th century explains the inner process of becoming one with Christ.

I lose myself and remain,

With my face on the Beloved inclined;

All has come to rest,

I abandon all my cares

There, among the lilies, to die.

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3 thoughts on “Our Biggest Delusion is Rooted in Our Ego

  1. Great article with which I mainly agree. I feel perhaps one of the reasons we are so self-deluded, so self-centred, is because God created us as individuals. He did not create us all out of a mold on a production line all the same. He created us as individuals all with individual free-will to think and act as we want. We are not like the Borg in Star Trek. (For those who don’t follow Star Trek: The Borg were a race of robotic creatures all thinking and acting the same because their “brains” [central processing unit] were all electronically connected to one master controlling “brain”).

    But I agree, Melanie, we should be able in our lives to see our selves as part of God’s creation. Thanx for a good article.

    By the way, I still cannot connect or post to the Association of Catholic Bloggers.

    God bless.


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